This article illustrates how confusing content and relationship messages can ruin a marriage or relationship. She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink It seems so unreasonable when you put it that way: My wife left me because sometimes I leave dishes by the sink. It makes her seem ridiculous; and makes me seem like a victim of unfair expectations.Read More →

Clothes and Self-Perception “I love the idea of trying to figure out why, when we put on certain clothes, we might more readily take on a role and how that might affect our basic abilities,” said Joshua I. Davis, an assistant professor of psychology at Barnard College and expert on embodied cognition who was not involved with the study.Read More →

How ‘Active Listening’ Makes Both Participants in a Conversation Feel Better When Traci Ruble and her husband, Clemens Gantert, climbed into bed one night recently, he began telling her about his day at his software startup. He explained that changes in a state law would affect his business. And he told her about a technical problem he was having with a security certificate for the software. Article is behind a paywall. Access depends on how many articles you’ve read this month.Read More →